always said that we must be careful with the changes, when we have people with autism in our family.
That never run for nosotros.Mi son, diagnosed in '99, provided also had another "name": atypical.
And that has helped us make it stronger against cambio.Cada stimuli once, I changed the furniture around, he was watching everything and helped me with the broom.
With the pacifier and blue clothing was a bit more difícil.Le remove many pacifiers before he decided to bury himself in a pot to hide it and the color change did gradually.
With changing afectado.Quizá house never looked worried because I prepared well in advance, maybe because a well tolerated simply because it is atypical, as they sometimes did not give me time to explain anything.
What frustrated him a few weeks ago was the lateness . If we called him at 4 and was not at that time, would get very angry without hearing razones.Pero, that has changed, then let me explain what were the reasons for the delay and stay calm.
Now, with the theme of the new house, we had to postpone the change to go from day to day, as we find details that must be arranging to go and he understood, without hiding his anxiety about not being able to be installed either at home, but has not berrinche.Lo've included in the work of restoring the house, because it is old and was left in very poor conditions for the woman who rented (leased), and maybe that has helped him better understand cosas.Ver as it was and the changes happening vain against the background of the house, help you realize that not all so rigid and that sometimes things do not go as we want.
The incluisión in household tasks were always required in my house work and care, but not least because my family is very sexist and I do not want that for my own ...
And it has helped them become independent in many things: make breakfast, cook their Viennese, make your bed, shopping, etc.
A difficult job but it pays off, so the new mommies in this way, always give structure to their children 's. discipline and structure are essential. And you can help, as in my case to change the routines that have arraigado.No is easy, but work is accomplished.
I always put myself in his shoes when I go to the supermarket and I change things pasillo.No gusta.Comenzar me searching again all over the place I hate, but I've become involved two children, "who would is first "so as not to show my anger because I lugar.Si change things is hard for me to understand it must be torture for him.
Try our s obesity-tolerant changes, is hard work, ranging from days to weeks in my case or even months, but worth trying as best preparing them for this society that muve so quickly and is in constant motion.
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